Strengthen Your Union
Married with Purpose Conference
Join us for an inspiring journey to deepen your marital bond and discover God’s plan for your marriage.
Married with Purpose Conference
September 5-6, 2024
Experience two transformative days at True Life Church. Engage in powerful sessions, worship, and fellowship designed to enrich your marriage. Highlights include keynote speeches, breakout sessions, and a special Q&A with Dr. Jim Vigil.
Complimentary Admission
Meet Our Keynote Speaker
Rev. Dr. Jim Vigil
Rev. Dr. Jim Vigil is an ordained minister with the Assemblies of God and brings over three decades of diverse ministry experience as a Lead Pastor, Church Planter, Chaplain, Professor, and Vice President of Student Development. He has served in executive leadership at Central Bible College, where he spent seven years shaping the spiritual and personal formation of future ministry leaders. He has also taught at both Central Bible College and Southeastern University, focusing on biblical studies, pastoral theology, and pastoral care and counseling.
Dr. Vigil holds a Master of Divinity in Family Pastoral Care & Counseling and a Doctor of Ministry in Pastoral Counseling, with Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE) training from UCLA Medical Center. His ministry has been marked by a deep and enduring passion for the emotional, relational, and spiritual health of pastors and their families. With a unique blend of theological depth and compassionate insight, Dr. Vigil brings a powerful voice to the conversation on marriage, offering wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for building strong, faith-filled relationships.
Conference Schedule
Day 1 - September 5
6:00pm-6:30pm
Check-In & Mingle
After checking in, enjoy a relaxed and welcoming environment designed to help you ease into the evening. Light refreshments and beverages will be available as you mingle with other couples. This is a great opportunity to connect, meet new friends, and prepare your hearts for an evening of growth and encouragement.
Whether you’re coming with years of marriage behind you or you’re newlyweds, this casual time is a perfect start to a meaningful experience.
6:30pm-6:45pm
Welcome & Worship
We’ll begin our time together with a heartfelt welcome as we set the tone for a weekend of connection, growth, and renewal. You’ll hear a brief introduction to the purpose and vision of the conference, meet some of the team, and get an overview of what to expect.
Then, we’ll enter into a time of worship — lifting our hearts to God as couples and inviting His presence to move in our relationships. Through music and prayer, we’ll center ourselves on the One who designed marriage and who walks with us through every season.
Whether you’re coming with joy, weariness, hope, or uncertainty, this is a sacred space to lay it all down and begin the journey refreshed and united.
6:45pm-7:00pm
Til Fun Do Us Part
Join us for a high-energy, joy-filled session designed to bring couples closer through fun, light-hearted games with a purpose. This session is all about building connection, communication, and maybe even a little friendly competition!
Each game is rooted in biblical themes of love, unity, and grace, with moments of laughter, reflection, and celebration. Whether you’ve been married for one year or fifty, you’ll walk away feeling more connected, encouraged, and reminded that a strong marriage is also a joyful one.
No athletic skills required—just bring your partner and your sense of humor!
7:00pm-8:00pm
The Purpose of Marriage
Marriage was never meant to be just a contract or convenience — it is a covenant, rooted in God’s divine design. In this foundational session, we’ll explore the biblical purpose of marriage as a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church.
We’ll look at how God designed marriage to cultivate intimacy — not just physical, but emotional and spiritual — as a safe space for growth, vulnerability, and unity. At the same time, we’ll confront one of the biggest challenges every couple faces: self-centeredness. Left unchecked, selfishness can quietly erode connection and trust. But when we approach marriage with a servant-hearted mindset, true transformation begins.
Whether you’re navigating a season of struggle or simply want to deepen your connection, this session will set the tone for a marriage built on purpose, not preference — and shaped by grace, not performance.
Day 2 - September 6
9:30am-10:15am
Check-In, Mingle, Welcome, & Worship
After checking in, enjoy a relaxed and welcoming environment designed to help you ease into the day. Light refreshments and beverages will be available as you mingle with other couples.
Next, we’ll move into a time of worship — coming together as couples to honor God and welcome His presence into our hearts and marriages. Through songs of praise and moments of prayer, we’ll refocus on the One who created the covenant of marriage and remains faithful through every season of our journey.
10:15am-11:00am
Communication: Now We’re Talking
Healthy communication is the heartbeat of a strong marriage — but it doesn’t always come naturally. In this session, couples will learn how to navigate the unique dynamics of “cross-cultural” communication between men and women, decode unspoken messages (metamessages), and understand how words like “nadjectives” can impact connection.
We’ll explore common communication breakdowns like the “Crazy Cycle,” and discover why marriage is a team sport — especially when conflict arises. You’ll walk away with 20 practical rules for fighting fair and tools to speak with love, not just logic.
11:00am-12:00pm
Breakout Sessions: How to Love Her & How to Respect Him
In these gender-specific breakout sessions, men and women will explore practical ways to strengthen their relationship through love and respect.
Men will learn how to truly love their wives using the C.L.U.E. framework, while women will discover how to show meaningful respect with the R.I.C.H. approach. These sessions offer real-life tools, biblical insight, and honest conversation to help each spouse better understand and meet their partner’s deepest relational needs.
12:00pm-12:30pm
Lunch Break
Take some time to relax and recharge with your spouse over lunch. Optional $5 boxed lunches (ham & cheese sandwich, chips, & water) are available for pre-purchase, or feel free to bring your own lunch or explore a variety of local restaurants in the area. Kids in childcare will have uncrustables, cookies, & water.
Whether you stay on-site or venture out, this is a great opportunity to connect, reflect, and enjoy some intentional time together before the next session begins.
12:30pm-1:15pm
Married with Purpose
It’s easy for couples to drift through marriage without direction — but thriving marriages are built on purpose. In this session, you’ll learn how to move from a “drifting” relationship to one that’s intentional and united. Discover how to create meaningful, shared goals that align with your values, and learn to make them S.M.A.R.T. — Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
Walk away with a clear vision for moving forward together with purpose and passion.
1:15pm-1:45pm
Q & A with Dr. Vigil
As we wrap up the conference, join us for an open and insightful Q&A session with Dr. Jim Vigil. This is a chance to ask follow-up questions, seek wisdom on specific challenges, and hear practical, biblical insight on real issues couples face every day.
Whether you’re curious about communication, conflict, intimacy, or spiritual growth, Dr. Vigil will offer guidance drawn from years of experience in marriage ministry and counseling. It’s the perfect way to end the weekend — with clarity, encouragement, and next steps for your journey together.
Join Us for a Transformative Experience
Strengthen your marriage with purpose and faith at our upcoming conference. Reserve your spot today and embark on a journey of spiritual growth and unity.